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Mastering the Game of Allyship

Created by Wendell Britt

A book compiling my methods for Mastering the Game of Allyship: Unlocking your Allyship Superpower

Latest Updates from Our Project:

Kickstarter Update: A Special Offer for Backers – Igniting Joy is Here!
about 1 month ago – Tue, Oct 15, 2024 at 02:37:21 PM

Hey everyone,

First, I want to extend my sincerest apologies for the delay in getting Mastering the Game of Allyship into your hands. I know you’ve been waiting, and I truly appreciate your patience and support during this journey. I’ve been working behind the scenes to ensure that when I deliver this book, it will be everything you deserve—and more.

That said, I want to share some exciting news with you: Igniting Joy is now available! 🎉

You might be wondering how this connects to Mastering the Game of Allyship, so let me explain. Writing Igniting Joy unlocked something in me. It gave me the energy and clarity I needed to finish Mastering the Game of Allyship. The truth is, I had hit a wall, and I couldn’t muster the motivation to push through. I kept getting stuck—feeling like I couldn’t give the book my all.

What I realized is that emotional alchemy, the process of turning emotions like anger into creative fuel, was the missing piece. I needed to rev up my anger engine—not in a destructive way, but in a way that allowed me to power through the hard parts of writing and organizing this huge project. Writing Igniting Joy was my way of doing that. It reignited my passion and motivation, and now, Mastering the Game of Allyship is on its way to the finish line.

Igniting Joy is all about using anger, comedy, and emotional alchemy to help people do hard things—and have fun doing them. It’s the engine that fuels creativity, resilience, and boundary-setting. If you’ve ever struggled with procrastination, self-doubt, or hitting a wall in your own work or personal life, this book could be a game-changer for you.

And because you’ve been such incredible backers, I’m offering Igniting Joy on a sliding scale just for you. If you’re in a position to support the project further, I would be incredibly grateful for your contribution, but I completely understand if you’d prefer to access the book for free or at a lower cost. The only thing I ask is that if you do choose the free option, you share the book with your network—whether through social media, email, or word of mouth. Getting the word out means everything to me right now.

Here’s the link to purchase Igniting Joy at the sliding scale: https://wendellbritt.gumroad.com/l/Ignnitingjoy

Inside this book are many of the tools and techniques included in the MTGOA book. This is the fastest way to get started on your Allyship journey. 

I know the world is really messed up right now and many of you (including myself) need a way to metabolize the anger at all the injustice in the world. 

I hope this book inspires you, just as it has inspired me to get back on track with Mastering the Game of Allyship. Emotional alchemy is a powerful tool, and it’s been the key to unlocking the creative energy I needed to finish what I started.

BEFORE I let you go here are some VITAL STATISTICS on the Mastering Allyship Book:

We're at about 300 pages right now...which is....simply too long. It's also ACTUALLY a GAME now. I started off wanting to write a book about gamification, but surprising only myself it's actually turned into a full fledged game. 

The book is essentially the GAME MANUAL of that very game, many of the pieces I've folded into the Igniting Joy Book: 

BARs Deck, Unpacking Questions, and W.A.V.E are all going to be crucial pieces to the Mastering the Game of Allyship system. Also for all the Backers that purchased a Workbook. I have bad news. We're not going to be offering a workbook anymore.... 

INSTEAD you'll get a copy of the Mastering the Game of Allyship CARD GAME. 

This is a game you can play in solitaire mode to learn how to be an Ally to yourself, and a multiplayer mode that simulates the experience of attempting to help someone else collaboratively. I'm very proud of it and excited to get it out to ya'll SOON. 

I'll be DEMO-ing the Mechanics at Miss Bowman's School for the Socially Inept the first week of November in Berkely CA. I'm going to be recording those sessions and will be sending ya'll the recording so you can get a peek under the hood! If you're in the BAY AREA I'd love to be able to connect with y'all in person!

Thank you again for your continued support, patience, and belief in this project. We’re so close to the finish line, and I can’t wait to deliver something that’s truly worthy of your backing.

With gratitude,
Wendell


 

Mastering the Game of Allyship Digital Event Saturday December 23
11 months ago – Thu, Dec 14, 2023 at 03:32:56 PM

Since the last one sold out, I'm going to be hositng ANOTHER Mastering the Game of Allyship Digital Event Saturday December 23rd from 1-4pm. As per usual there will be a recording available. 

 Register for the Event here! 

If you want to have access to the event and FUTURE recordings if you buy the replay link here you'll get access to this and all future Mastering the Game of Allyship Digital Events. 

 Purchase access to the replay library here! 

Also I’m going to be hosting a Weekly Donation based Shadow Work Practica for anyone who wants to get a jump on their Cleaning Up work re: allyship.

It will be hosted Sundays from 1-2pm in the vibecafe- you can just show up and make a donation via Venmo (@Wendell-britt) CashApp ($WendellBritt) or PayPal ([email protected])- No one will be turned away for no payment. Think of this as a drop-in yoga class for your creative practice.

This Practica is designed for ANY creative block you may be encountering and its a way for people to meet up and share what shadows are coming up for them and learning and practicing a cutting edge shadow practice you’ve probably never seen anywhere before (unless you were a student of the Mastering the Game of Allyship course in 2020)

You can find more info on my SHINY NEW WEBSITE. This will be a place to check all the events and such!

Thanks so much for ya’ll support! If you wanna come to the next event feel free to sign up here and bring a friend!

I'm trying to give ya'll as much access to the resources of MTGOA as possible while I finish up the book. If you've got any ideas for the kind fo content you'd like me to create let me know and I'll see about making it happen!

Also still looking for volunteers to do a 1:1 coaching sessino to be recorded for use in the book. Looking for 20 brave volunteers. Your name wont be used but your story WILL. This will allow people to understand that anyone can have tremendous transformation in their allyship if they use these principles!

 Book a session (for FREE) here! 

Mastering the Game of Allyship: Digital Workshop TONIGHT
12 months ago – Thu, Nov 30, 2023 at 01:13:21 PM

Hey all! 

Wanted to make another blast for the Mastering the Game of Allyship Digital Event. 

This event was designed to give everyone a full breakdown of the Mastering the Game of Life system so y'all can start playing with it while I'm finishing up the book!

You can purchase tickets here!

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/mastering-the-game-of-allyship-unveiling-event-tickets-741556173477?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=cp&aff=ebdsshcopyurl

If money is an issue feel free to reach out to me at [email protected] I've got a few spots set aside for Kickstarter backers!

Register Mastering the Game of Allyship Digital Event November 30th (replay avaiable)
12 months ago – Wed, Nov 22, 2023 at 09:54:29 AM

🚀 Unlock Your Allyship Potential: Level Up with Us at a Mastering the Game of Allyship Event!

Hey Kickstarter Fam! 🌐✨

Get ready to revolutionize your allyship game with our groundbreaking project – "Mastering the Game of Allyship"! 🎮

**🌅 Awaken Your Inner Allyship Superhero:**

Embark on an epic journey to discover your unique allyship superpower! Dive into gamified experiences that reveal your role in the larger narrative of positive change. 🚀 What kind of ally superhero are you? 

**🚿 Clean Up Your Allyship Playbook:**

Ready to sweep away obstacles holding you back? Contribute to a project that clears the path to effective allyship. 🧹 Let's create a space for healing, growth, and authenticity in the world of allyship. Sign-Up now to join the clean-up crew!

**🌱 Level Up Your Allyship Adventure:**

Level up your allyship skills by achieving cognitive, moral, and emotional growth! 📈 Sign up to integrate developmental principles with gamification, expanding your worldview and becoming a more inclusive advocate. How high can you level up in allyship?

**🎮 Show Up and Game On:**

Gamify your allyship and show up as a positive force for change. 🎉 Support our project to align your actions with your values, connect with a community of like-minded allies, and make a real impact. Who said allyship can't be fun and empowering?

Sign up here - https://events.masteringallyship.com/

Events! Contribute to the Book! Book Update!
about 1 year ago – Mon, Nov 20, 2023 at 10:52:39 AM

Kickstarter Update: Mastering the Game of Allyship Book Progress 🚀

Hey Team Allyship,

Wendell here, reporting in from the rainy but ever-so-charming Seattle! 🌧️ I've successfully touched down and am in the process of settling into this fantastic city. 

This Kansas boy has finally made it to the Emerald City of Seattle. Still getting settled in but wanted to give y'all another kickstarter update as we start heading to the final chapter of the saga of writing this book. 

The coffee is flowing, the vibes are good, and I'm excited to announce that Mastering the Game of Allyship events is brewing!

### **1. Allyship Events in the Works 🌍✨**

I'm thrilled to announce plans for Mastering the Game of Allyship events in Seattle, Portland, Minneapolis, and the Bay Area. But here's the scoop—I'm on the lookout for some amazing volunteers to help make these events legendary. If you're as passionate about allyship as I am and want to get involved, drop me a line. Let's make magic happen together! ✨

Fill out this survey if you're interested in being on the ground team 

https://forms.gle/1nJkzRbf2sqsmYkr5

2. Book Sneak Peek 📚🔍

Now, let's dive into the heart of it—the book. I can't contain my excitement about some groundbreaking ideas that'll hopefully reshape the allyship game. One biggie is bidding farewell to victimization. The journey to becoming an allyship game master involves consciously choosing to step out of the victim role. It's like a workout for the soul, and let me tell you, it's both exhilarating and exhausting! 🏋️‍♂️

Choosing the path of the allyship game master means spending less time in victim mode. But hey, this shift comes with a unique grief process. As I navigate this journey myself, I'll be sharing insights and experiences, raw and unfiltered. It's all part of the game, and I want you to be part of it too.

### **Navigating the Grief: From Victimhood to Allyship Mastery 🌌**

**Stage 1: Denial - Holding onto Belonging**

In the realm of allyship, the journey often starts with stepping away from victim consciousness. But here's the twist—victimhood provides a sense of belonging. Misery loves company, and as one steps into the role of an effective ally, there's a risk of losing the sympathy and camaraderie of those still in the victim mindset. The challenge lies in accepting that the path to mastery may feel lonely at times.

**Stage 2: Anger - The Empire vs. The Underdog Dilemma**

Picture this: everyone loves an underdog, and everyone despises the empire. Becoming an effective ally might mean looking more like the empire than the scrappy underdog. This shift can stir up anger and resistance, especially when the identity of the ally clashes with the familiar narrative of the heroic underdog. The struggle here is embracing a new role without succumbing to the anger of being perceived differently.

**Stage 3: Bargaining - Losing the Allure of Victim Narratives**

Victim narratives are like comfort food—they're easy to digest, offering a clear villain and an imagined superheroic savior. However, as one becomes proficient in the game of allyship, the obstacles cease to be villains to thwart. Instead, they transform into specific, actionable problems that might lack the allure of a heroic saga. The challenge is in bargaining with the allure of familiar narratives for the sake of transformative growth.

**Stage 4: Depression - Seeking Validation and Mentorship**

As the shift from victimhood unfolds, a sense of loss and depression may emerge. Effective allyship demands a support group that can validate the efforts, providing a safe space to navigate this grief process. Mentorship becomes crucial—someone to hold you through the lows, guide you through the transformations, and remind you of the greater purpose. The struggle is real, but the depression becomes a catalyst for seeking the right support.

**Stage 5: Acceptance - Embracing the Higher Levels**

At the higher levels of effective allyship, acceptance is key. It's accepting that the journey involves challenges that transcend the simplicity of victim narratives. The need for increasingly difficult challenges arises to keep the ally engaged without reverting to victim mode. Acceptance is about embracing the evolving role, the complexities, and the responsibility that comes with mastery.

**Supporting Growth: A Blueprint for Effective Allyship**

To ease this grief process, a robust support system is vital. Surround yourself with a supportive community that acknowledges the journey. Seek mentorship from those who've walked the path. Engage with challenges that match your evolving skills. In this way, the grief transforms into a force propelling you toward mastery in the game of allyship.

Remember, you're not alone in this. The grief is a testament to your growth, a rite of passage on the road to becoming a masterful ally. Embrace it, learn from it, and let it guide you toward a future where effective allyship thrives. 🌈✨

### **3. Be a Part of the Transformation 🌟🎤**

And now, the moment you've all been waiting for—I'm opening the door for 10-20 courageous souls to join me on this transformative journey. I'm looking for volunteers for 1:1 coaching sessions, where we'll tackle any blocks to becoming an effective ally together. Your stories will be integral to showcasing the power of the system. Don't worry; your names will be changed for the final product. Ready to playtest this final stretch? Sign up for your session [here](https://calendly.com/wendell-britt/60min?back=1&month=2023-11)!

### **Let's Level Up Allyship Together on November 30th! 🌈**

Unlock the Power of Allyship in a 3-Hour Transformational Journey

Embark on a thrilling journey of personal development at our exclusive event!

Join us for a hands-on experience where you'll explore the hidden secrets hindering your allyship potential.

Dive into the immersive environment as you debug and clean up unconscious blocks, level up your allyship skills through various developmental stages, and emerge as a master ally ready to SHOW UP and make a real impact.

This event is your live demo, showcasing the ultimate game development for personal transformation.

Secure your spot now for an adventure that promises to unlock new levels of growth and empowerment!

Sign up for the workshop here!

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/mastering-the-game-of-allyship-unveiling-event-tickets-741556173477?aff=oddtdtcreator

Warmly,

Wendell Britt 🌟